Millions of people are affected by domestic violence each year.

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Warning Signs an Individual May be in Trouble:​

• The individual frequently cancels plans at the last minute or seems afraid of making their partner angry.

• Their partner ridicules her/him publicly or you sense there is volatility in the comments.

• You notice changes in the individual's behavior or the children's behavior, when their partner is present.

• The individuals often has bruises, injuries, or has frequent “accidents” for which she/he gives vague explanations.

• The individual appears frightened or exhausted.

 

How You Can Help Someone Who is Being Abused

• Listen to the individual. Believe what they tell you. Allow them to talk but do not force a discussion. 

• Tell them the abuse is not their fault.  Remind them their partner chooses this behavior.

• Place blame on their partner but do not speak negatively of their partner.

• Allow the individual to grieve. At one time they trusted and loved this person.

• Offer support, options, and resources that may help the individual.

• Help them determine a safe place and plan should an incident happen or begin in the future.

• When appropriate encourage the survivor to contact the local DV service provider or police department. 

• Maintain communication with the individual and assure them you are available for support and safety.